My life would be a lot easier if I could answer this on my own.
Ask them about Israel-Palestine.
Commit a fireable offense in my state, great stuff /jk
L shit my state makes us sign a loyalty pledge fkr every employment contract.
Is it illegal to ask about it?
My state requires that very employment contract to indicate that we: 1) do t engage in BDS 2) support Israel’s Robyn to exist
Yes I’m in the south why do you ask
Wearing a politically neutral t-shirt that says “How 'bout that Israel, eh?”
Honestly a very funny idea
Ask them about Russia-Ukraine.
Ask them about the Sino-Soviet split.
Ask them about NGE + End Of Evangelion vs. the Rebuild films.
(if you saw the original post before the edit, consider it a Limited Edition Post. I’m doing those now).
Trick question: the answer is 25+26
Honestly this could backfire.
It takes time, sometimes years. Be kind to yourself and let yourself feel your feelings in a healthy way.
Also helps if you imagine they’re a huge lib that likes Harry Potter and Funkos
I’m going to strangle that owl. You know how long we’ve been enemies
Hedwig is a class traitor
You’re a fan of Vaush… aren’t you.
You fucking take that back
Hate ducking Hedgwig is the name of my new band
That is a very empathetic approach, thank you for the advice
identify a flaw they have and hyperfocus on it
Lol I have that same shit going on. Some blonde haired cute girl I had a crush on in high school and I was smitten.
We kind of flirted back and forth a bit and she came over a few times to hang out with me alone and watch a movie. My socially obvious ass didn’t realize that if I asked, I probably could’ve gotten a kiss or maybe something more during those times?
Anyways she lost interest eventually as sometimes happens and I’ve just had to let her go. Sometimes I’ll still see her around on social media. But it will never happen even though I still think she’s just so gorgeous. It’s hard my friend, but it will lessen over time
More of a: my coworker is hot as all hell and I’m tired of recognizing that.
Thank god she hasn’t expressed interest or I’d be permanently wrapped around a finger.
Same happened with me developing a crush on my boss. When you fight it you make it a thing, I’m finding it better to not deny the attraction but more intentionally notice other parts of her and our dynamic to train my mind to focus on those things. Also reminding myself each time I day dream that that relationship isn’t possible so think of something else. I’m almost a month into the process, results are promising
Ahh, I feel you. Focus on stuff like: hell yeah she worked this section and everything is zoned properly. Use this thought to plop on top of the baser thoughts. Crush them.
It happens man. It happens. I’ve had co workers I’d like to ask out too.
Yee, I just wish I had an off button I could press.
More like gaslight myself.
I’m bi flr fucks sake, why can’t I press a button and turn off strsight mode for a few hours?
The reality is that you can’t do anything. Just wait, it will go away.
Probably true, but I’m upset about the fact you ar probably right and am going to ignore this.
Can’t control what you are physically attracted to man. Just gotta wait until you move on.
We’re on the same boat, let’s go 😂
Look man, I just want somebody to let me know about an anti Boner pill.
take anti-depressants and you’ll stop being attracted to anyone 🙃