Like if it’s even an option for you at all, make the move. It’s such a better quality of life it’s crazy, cannot be exaggerated.

Obviously not easy, but if it’s even at all potentially feasible do what you can to make it happen.

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    the only part of the US that is walkable is the part built before cars, so mostly just the northeast, like NYC and north. any other cities suck for walking compared to anywhere else on earth.

    the west coast is the most inhuman landscape ever created on planet earth. its is so ugly and awful.

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      Portland and Seattle are lovely and have many walkable neighborhoods. SF is expensive, and so is the entire bay really, but Oakland, Berkeley, and Emeryville are very walkable and ever so slightly more affordable compared to being on the Peninsula itself. Many of the Central Valley cities are unwalkable car based hell holes, and so is much of SoCal for that matter, but I have friends who live in Sacramento and they won’t shut up about how happy they are to go car free and how the city is dramatically expanding bike infrastructure. It’s very neighborhood dependent still, but I don’t see why they’d be lying to me about it and they did indeed sell their cars in favor of ebikes, so the proof is in the pudding there.

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        Davis, and the areas near it, is famously bike friendly. There are bike lanes pretty much everywhere, and the car drivers are acclimated to bike transit enough that they aren’t crazy dangerous.

        Sacramento is a bigger city, so it’s probably a bit harder to really bike transform it fully, but hopefully the process continues.

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      I used to live in a certain part of San Diego and did fine there without a car for about a year. I was able to walk to a convenience store/the beach, I was able to bus to the nearest shopping center/my job and catch the train to downtown. Had to leave that neighborhood though because I lost my “friend from college” room rate and there was no way I could afford what everybody else was charging.

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      Boston is extremely walkable, it’s a relatively small big city and most of it was built before cars. I’ve got a picture of my old apartment building with dirt streets and a horse carriage out front. I used to regularly walk from one end of the city to the other for leisure. The T is surprisingly good public transit for america too. They’ve even been doing free fares on some of the bus routes for the last few years, and just extended that experiment because it was pretty successful.

      People drag it for not being a grid sometimes (the “paved-over cowpaths” myth) but that’s because the streets go around hills since they needed to be traversed by people and horses.

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      Seattle’s downtown, Fremont, and Ballard neighborhoods. But be careful because each of those extend past the walkable area (like Fremont and Ballard extend past their walkable area and include straight up suburbs).

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    There are also pockets of most major cities that are walkable. Unfortunately it isn’t easy to know where they are unless you live there. The only clue is to look at places that are within 1 block of grocery stores, which is probably the top constraint.

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    I’ve been trying for over a year now but getting a job anywhere but here seems impossible. I’ve been trying to save up some cash as a buffer, but I have an ok job already where I am. I’d want to move to Philly, but have no friends or contacts there at all. No clue what the job market is like either since I can’t get any responses to my applications.

    Maybe someday I’ll make it work, but it’s a struggle right now.

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    I had to go to the exurbs recently for something and Jesus Christ, I can’t believe people willingly subject themselves to that shit just so they can have a big house

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    I’m genuinely a much happier, healthier, and overall more satisfied person now that I live in a walkable city and can bike as both a hobby and a mode of transport. I wish more cities in the US were this dense. I wish this was more accessible to people.

    Maybe someday. Things seem to be moving in a generally positive direction, even if slowly. I’ve recently realized just how effective local activism and showing up to community meetings is (spoiler: VERY.)

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      Same that’s why I’m posting about it. Without even meaning to im walking like 4 miles a day and I feel great.

      Lived in shitty small towns in the south my whole life, just incomparable