Hello, it’s what the title says. I feel like this can’t go on like this, i don’t have real friends and that’s purely because of me not feeling like showing who i really am in front of others. I’m surrounded by people whom I wouldn’t want to even talk to, because they are bigoted or merely ignorant. Instead, I think that by coming out I can get more chances to meet new people with whom I could feel comfortable talking to about my passions and ideas without being afraid to reveal my sexuality. This could also be a way to sort through the people i know around me and understand which one deserves sticking with me and which not. But this could be a bit dangerous, not to the level of risking being beaten up (maybe) but there is the risk of being marginalized by those around me, but then again if this could help me find real friends then maybe it’s kinda worth it. What do you think about this? Has it ever happened to you that you wanted to come out but were afraid of the consequences?
The fact that i’m shy doesn’t really help much… best i could do is to join some online communities but that’s not gonna cut it in the long run. By the way what do you mean by “they will always be responsible with not outing you”?
They mean those people understand that being out is dangerous for some people in some scenarios. They’ve likely been in those scenarios before, or they know someone who has. They’re sympathetic to your concerns about being out, so they won’t go blabbing about it to others without your consent.
They are responsible with your secret and the trust you’ve placed in them.