I’m undecided between 2 and 3

  • folkrav@lemmy.ca
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    8 months ago

    If your answer is more than “one”, it usually means you don’t have the right pillow for your sleeping position. I have broad shoulders and I was a side sleeper. I used two pillows for the longest time, otherwise I had to twist my shoulder in while sleeping, or tilt my head towards the bed, neither being really comfortable for long time periods. Then I bought a thick foam one on sale in some random store I was at, and it made a world of a difference.

    • sping@lemmy.sdf.org
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      8 months ago

      I would use only one if I could find one I like that is thick enough. For a while I put two in one pillow case but the result was too oval in side profile.

      • Apathy Tree@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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        8 months ago

        Maybe some of those foam chunk pillows with adjustable loft. Basically the case has a zipper in it and you can move fill from one to another.

        I bought a pair of these and some waterproof zip cases and ended up with 3 pillows I like instead of 2 because they both needed to lose about a third of their volume to be right for me.

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      8 months ago

      I strongly prefer a 2 stage pillow, I’m happiest with 2.

      Bottom is firm, top is soft. This allows me to maintain a generally consistent height, but move and adjust the top to suit different positions

    • IninewCrow@lemmy.ca
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      8 months ago

      As a kid I used to sleep with none. As a teen a towel was enough. In my 20s I was happy with one thin pillow. Now in my 40s I have one average pillow and I feel like upgrading.

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        8 months ago

        My neck aches if there’s more than one pillow under my head, I have four on my bed and often use the others to prop up my back if I’m watching tv or something, but sleeping on ones stomach limits the practical amount of pillows without discomfort

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      8 months ago

      I can’t even imagine what it would look like for someone to use more than 1 pillow. Like, how is their body not contorted into a horribly uncomfortable position?

    • Caesium@lemmy.world
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      8 months ago

      pillows always made me feel uncomfy so I pretty much entirely stopped using them. Ill ball up a blanket if I want some support but often times I forgo it

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      8 months ago

      I am a side/stomach sleeper, and after years of never sleeping right, I was looking for a new pillow and tried these cheap-ass Walmart pillows made for side sleepers. I also decided to splurge and get pillow protectors. I forget the brand, but they are the top-level anti-allergen, anti-mold, super clean ultra max ones. I fluff mine every time before I lie down. So far, it’s lasted 6 months. My wife’s is a bit worn, but she is one of those people that seems to wear things out just touching them lol. It’s the most comfortable pillow I’ve ever used, and I’ve stayed in some pretty fancy places. It’s not just about how expensive it is, but if it’s the right kind of pillow for the way you sleep.

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        8 months ago

        You’re right about it being the right kind of pillow. I’m wondering if your fluff habit is what’s helping though. I’ve tried like twenty different kinds of cheap pillows and they’ve all sucked. It wasn’t until I finally said “enough is enough” and spent like $120 bucks on a pillow that I’ve finally had one that supports my head properly. Only problem is it is made for side sleepers and I rotate multiple times in the middle of the night from side to stomach and have to move it out of the way when I go to my stomach.

        It has reduced the amount I rotate though.

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          8 months ago

          Yeah, that’s why my pillow journey has taken so long. I refuse to pay $100+ for something that needs to be replaced every 6-12 months. It’s why I’m not looking forward to getting a new mattress, too. They used to make them with a top on both sides so you could flip, as well as rotate your mattress, making it last much longer. Now you only get one side, and who the fuck knows how long all that rubber/memory foam/trash that they stick in them now lasts before it degrades. It’s just more of us not owning anything and everything made to be thrown out and replaced rather than maintained and repaired.

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            8 months ago

            Wait, why would your pillow only last 6-12 months? I used the same pillow for like 4-6 years before replacing it with this one.

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    8 months ago

    Two, with the bottom pillow pulled down a bit giving me 2 tiers.

    I have wide shoulders and go to sleep on my side, so I need the height, but I tend to roll into my stomach, where 2 is too high, so I wake up on the bottom pillow.

    Having 2 in a slanted stack just allows for the perfect height adjustment for neck alignment.

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        8 months ago

        Lol, glad you like it.

        For some greater details, I’ve recently switched to shredded foam fill pillows. With the slant stack method, they kinda form into wedge shapes, adding support to keep the structure in place. The top sinks down to hold the pulled out bottom one out, and it keeps the bottom tier fluffy when I work my way down to sleeping in that.

        I don’t think that’d work quite as good with traditional polyfill pillows or solid foam slabs. I do feel I’ve had less neck pain this way though, and it worked ok with the limp ass pillows I had at a recent hotel stay.

        A third pillow is propped on the nightstand for when I want to sit up in bed. That one goes almost vertical against the headboard.

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      8 months ago

      I recently made an effort to switch myself from stomach to side sleep… and discovered this exact technique through trial and error, and for the same reasons!

      I do a few modifications, though. In my case it’s specifically two thin soft pillows that give me the height I need. Also, I prefer them rotated vertically so I have a more generous chest surface on the lower tier. And if I go to sleep on my side (which is most of the time now) I don’t need the tiers so I’ll “roll up” the lower portion of the pillows to temporarily eliminate the lower tier. If I move enough at night the pillows unroll themselves right into my stomach sleep configuration. Or maybe I manually lift myself to let them unroll, not really sure but this has been working for me.

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        8 months ago

        This has really been a fun thread and I’m glad I participated in it! With a post like this, I never know if the intent is serious or silly, but it’s been cool learning everyone’s pillow-tech.

        The sleep pros may all say we should be using one thin pillow and all sleep on our back or whatever the general rules are these days, but I can’t for the life of me fall asleep on my back. I don’t sleep textbook perfect, so I’ve got to find a practical solution for me.

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    8 months ago

    One, that’s the kind of thin you get from it being cheap and way past the point you’re supposed to throw it out. Perfection.