Just on gut instinct I bet there’s something screwy with any attempt to scientifically define and quantify “features” in a woman, or any person for that matter.

With my sample size of 1, no.

Well I ain’t like that so I dunno

I think people in general are attracted to people that look similar to themselves. This isn’t universal obviously it’s just a common correlation. And since you have your mom’s genetics a woman that looks similar to you will look similar to your mom.

There’s a funny consequence of this where, if you separate siblings at a young age, they will never develop the revulsion towards each other that most siblings develop, and will be more likely to dig on each other if they meet as adults.

I do have a fair bit in common with my husband’s mom, but none of his exes look or act like me and I pursued him, so I’m pretty confident he wasn’t seeking that out

I haven’t been married and I don’t want to be, but from my experience as a cishet guy dating women and having long-term girlfriends: Hell fucking no.

My partner looks nothing like my mom, not even close. But personally wise, I married my dad.